WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH, THE TOUGH GETS GOING BUT REMEMBER WHEN YOU SAW ONE SET OF FOOTPRINTS, GOD IS THE ONE CARRYING YOU THROUGH

IN LIFE WE FACE PEOPLE WHO TELLS US LIES,PEOPLE WE LOVE VERY MUCH TOO.WE GET HURT, WE FALL DOWN,BUT ARE WE GOING TO REMAIN WHERE WE ARE AND REMAIN BEATEN? I URGE YOU THEN WHEN YOU'RE FACING IT TO COME BEFORE THE LORD.A BROKEN SPIRIT,A BROKEN CONTRITE HEART HE WILL NOT DESPISE.I LEARNT THAT IF PEOPLE I LOVE LIE TO ME,I JUST HAVE TO FORGIVE BUT IT SHOWS THAT THE PERSON'S CONSCIENCE HAS BEEN SEARED TO THE PROMPTING OF THE HOLY SPIRIT.IF THE PERSON ISNT A BELIEVER...WE FORGIVE STILL. I'LL ADVISE GETTING RID OF WHATEVER REMINDS YOU OF THE PERSON TO AVOID CARRYING A STIGMA HAUNTING YOU,COMMIT YOUR MEMOERY OF THE PERSON TO THE LORD. IF THE PERSON IS A BELIEVER...LOVE WILL TAKE WHATEVER YOU HAVE GIVEN TO THE PERSON BACK AND IF YOU ARE ONE WHO FEARS IT'LL HAUNT YOU...HAND IT ALL TO SOMEBODY YOU ARE ABLE TO CONFIDE IN AND YOU ARE ACCOUNTABLE TO,SPIRITUALLY AND EMOTIONALLY MATURE.AND IF IT IS THE LORDS WILL, HE WILL BRING TWO OF YOU TOGETHER AGAIN AND THERE'LL BE A TIME TO CATCH UP HERE AND THERE BUT YOU HAVE FIRST TO MAKE RIGHT EVERYTHING WHETHER YOU WERE IN A WRONG OR THE OTHER PERSON WHOM YOU LOVE, AND YOU TWO HAVE TO LOVE EACH OTHER AGAIN WITH THE LOVE OF THE LORD.TO END A FRIENDSHIP SHOULDN'T BE A CONTINGENCY SOLUTION AND PRAY FOR THE LORD'S INTERVENTION AND THAT HE WILL BE YOUR MEDIATOR THERE IN YOUR FRIENDSHIP. DON'T TALK TOO MUCH,INSTEAD LISTEN TO WHAT GOD HAS TO SAY, HE WANTS TO DO A WORK THERE IN BOTH YOUR HEARTS AND DON'T LET OUT YOUR REPRESSED FRUSTRATION THAT THE OTHER PARTY INITIATED THE BREAK UP,AND THAT YOU NEVER SEEN A BREAK UP AS A CONTINGENCY SOLUTION...PRAY!!! IVE MADE THE MISTAKE MYSELF OF TALKING TOO MUCH WHEN GOD WANTS TO DO A WORK IN OUR HEARTS AND HE ASKED ME TO SHUY UP AND WHAT IM SAYING IS HINDERING THE WORK HE IS DOING, I THEN REALISED HE IS RIGHT....EVERYTIME I QUARREL WITH MY FRIEND,I'LL GO TO GOD IN PRAYER ASKING FOR HIM TO BE OUR MEDIATOR AND HE ALWAYS WITHOUT FAIL MAKE THINGS RIGHT BETWEEN US...100% GUARANTEED!!!
WHY I NEVER SEEN A BREAKING UP AS A CONTINGENCY SOLUTION? GOD NEVER INTENDS A RELATIONSHIP PUT INTO HIS HAND TO DIVORCE AS MUCH AS IT IS BUT A FRIENDSHIP TO BREAK UP LIKEWISE...BUT WE CAN'T STOP THE OTHER PARTY IF THE PERSON WANTS IT, ALL WE CAN DO IS LOVE THE PERSON AND ASK GOD FOR THE PEACE TO AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE SOFTEN THE HEART OF THAT PERSON TO RECONCILE, BUT OUR CHOICES AND THE WILL OF GOD DOES GO INTO CONFLICT OR THE OTHER FEELS THAT ONE COULD FOCUS,LOVE AND SERVE ON GOD WITHOUT THE OTHER, ALLOW THE PARTING.I BELIEVE THAT THE BODY OF CHRIST SHOULD HAVE NO DISSENSION WHATSOEVER AND WHETHER ONE REMAINS AS FRIENDS OR NOT.THEY'RE STILL GONNA BE ABLE TO LOOK EACH OTHER IN THE EYE WITH LOVE, THE PERFECT LOVE OF THE LORD JESUS CHRIST WHOSE LOVE HUNG HIM ON THE CROSS CONNECTING US TO GOD CLOTHING US IN RIGHTEOUSNESS THRU JESUS AND CONNECTING US ON THE HORIZONTAL PLANE,JOINING OUR HANDS TOGETHER. SIN IN THE BOOK OF ROMANS CAUSED OUR MINDS TO BE DEPRAVED AND IT DESTROYED RELATIONSHIP GOD INTENDED PURE.
THEREFORE I URGE YOU TO LOOK AT FRIENDSHIP AS NOT MERE COINCIDENCE, INSTEAD IT IS A DIVINE INTERVENTION OF GOD THAT IN A FRIENDSHIP, WE LEARN TO LOVE COS GOD IS LOVE, IF WE CANNOT LOVE EACH OTHER WHOM WE CAN SEE,HOW CAN WE SAY WE LOVE GOD WE CANNOT SEE? THEREFORE LOVING EACH OTHER GLORIFIES GOD.